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August 26, 2008

Run For The Fallen ~ Final Day’s Event…

On Sunday, Day 72, the Run For The Fallen runners arrived crossing Memorial Bridge at the end of the last 10K, sweaty and smiling carrying American flags to the applause and shouts of appreciation from hundreds of supporters and families.

Back before Day 62, August 15th, 2008, the day Scott, the four men who were killed with him and 44 other brave soldiers honored that day, I was emailing with Shauna Sweet.  Shauna does Media Relations for the Run and I wanted to get more information about the schedule of that day.  I was thinking we would make the drive (nearly 7 hours round trip) to just east of Love Virginia on the Blue Ridge Parkway to welcome and thank the runners as they passed and placed the flag and note-card for Scott.  Several things happened to make that impossible and so I asked Shauna to pass a request to Jon Bellona that he inscribe  “Warrior Poet” on Scott’s memorial card with the flag.  She passed my note on to Jon and he said he would do that.

So as we were greeting the runners, Sunday, I sought out Jon as I had a nice thank you speech ready for when we shook hands and when I introduced myself to him as Scott’s dad he immediately said, “Warrior Poet!”.  I was so stunned by his remembering my son that I was speechless and overcome with emotion.  The words I had planned were gone and I could only clap him on the shoulder (he was way to sweaty to hug).  But that moment and the look on his face and in his eye of understanding and compassion is one of the great memories I have of this past year and I will never forget it.  I can imagine that he had many moments like this on the trek east with other Gold Star Family members.  A few moments later as Jon addressed the crowd he said, “America is a beautiful country and it is full of kind, loving and caring people.”

In conceiving this run I think Jon had a rare moment of inspiration.  To undertake it and in accomplishing it he gave so many the opportunity to share with him the honor of knowing, loving and remembering those Fallen that preserve our nation.  I did not know his best friend, 1st Lt. Michael J. Cleary, but I feel like I know him now through my short time with Jon.  The great thing is, and I am certain of this,  Jon created that same feeling in the thousands of Americans he came to know this summer.  What he has done to honor Mike’s memory and the memory of the others fallen is nothing short of perfect.

Thank you Jon Bellona!  What a privilege it was to be part of your great run!

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Some photos I made of that perfect morning…

Run For The Fallen crosses Memorial Bridge

Run For The Fallen crosses Memorial Bridge

Jon Bellona leads the runners on the last leg into Arlington National Cemetery

Jon Bellona leads the runners on the last leg into Arlington National Cemetery

Looking South towards the Custis Lee Mansion, the Run ends...

Looking South towards the Custis Lee Mansion, the Run ends...

Jon Bellona addresses the crowd of over 200 runners and families

Jon Bellona addresses the crowd of over 200 runners and families

Section 60 Families present Thank You cards to Jon Bellona and the Run for the Fallen

Section 60 Families present "Thank You" cards to Jon Bellona and the Run for the Fallen

The Runners, Families and supporters walk the last mile to Section 60

The Runners, Families and supporters walk the last mile to Section 60

ANC Superintendent, John Metzler welcomes and congratulates Jon Bellona

ANC Superintendent, John Metzler welcomes and congratulates Jon Bellona

Jon Bellona places the flag he carried across the country  from California to Washington, DC

Jon Bellona places the flag he carried across the country from California to Washington, DC

Runners and Families place flags and flowers on the graves of the FallenRunners and Families place flags and flowers on the graves of the Fallen
We shared a wee dram of the Glenfarclas 21 with Scott

We shared a wee dram of the Glenfarclas 21 with Scott

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3 Comments »

  1. Thank you for letting me share the day with you and Marti. I’m sorry I could not run as I had planned to… but hopefully I’ll make that up to you on October 11. Love you. :)

    Comment by Suzy Deppa Quintavalle — August 26, 2008 @ 10:25 am | Reply

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  3. Dear Mr. Kirkpatrick,
    I am very sorry for the loss of your son Scott. I am glad that you could go to Arlington, I was there and was so deeply touched. I am about 40 minutes from Love Va and if you like I could drive to Love and find Scott’s flag for you. If you would like to have it I would be happy to mail it to you.
    I was able to spend some time w/the runners and help tag the flags for the next day, it is a memory I will cherish and hold dear. I was on the road w/them for a day and learned that each morning before the run they read out loud the service member’s names that they will be running for on that given day. Once the flags have been placed at the mile marker they will call out the individual service member’s name again at his/her flag as the runners go by. The respect and reverence I experienced w/Jon and the runners, brings me tears right now. Powerful and loving. Honorable and noble. Your son will not be forgotten.
    Mew

    Comment by MaryEllen — August 27, 2008 @ 11:10 pm | Reply


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